Monday Musings with Rachelle
Hard work spotlights the character of people: some turn up their sleeves, some turn up their noses, and some don’t turn up at all.
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Just before I had one of my babies, I spent quite a bit of time lying down off an on during the day. Fortunately, I was able to pass the time nicely reading the outrageously long, but enjoyable book, Gone with the Wind by Margaret Mitchell, originally published in 1936. As a younger reader, I was turned off by anything that seemed to be remotely romantic—instead hitting up the fantasy and mystery books. But imagine my surprise to find out that Gone with the Wind isn’t just a romance novel, but an epic look into the Confederate South struggling through the Civil War.
I enjoyed immersing myself into the culture of Scarlett O’Hara in 1861 and experiencing with her all the joys and sorrows of life during the Civil War and its aftermath. At 1,024 pages this book is atypical of the novels written today and that is one of the reasons it was fun to read. Today’s novels must move at a fast pace to keep up with the cinematic qualities expected by the consumer.
For the most part, we can’t revel in two pages of descriptive detail about the Georgian countryside, its red clay fields growing white bolls of cotton—we’re usually lucky to get a few paragraphs of descriptive detail in a modern novel. But Mitchell’s detail makes the plantation of Tara come to life, the reader actually steps back in time and experiences the emotions of the political strife during the Civil War in an interesting narrative that teaches as much as any history class on the topic.
What I found particularly intriguing was how Mitchell displayed slavery, abolition, the formation of the Ku Klux Klan, and subsequent segregation and racism. It was very interesting to see how she painted a picture of most southern farmers loving the slaves that were a part of their household like family. No, they weren’t treated as equals but they trusted them with the upbringing of their children. The Yankees were described as wanting to free the slaves but not wanting anything to do with them. They’d no sooner trust a slave with their child than a criminal.
Scarlett wonders at the Yankee’s ignorance when it comes to the value of a slave but she doesn’t realize why slavery needed to be abolished. I think it was hard for Scarlett to comprehend because her own slaves were so well treated that they wanted to stay with the Tara plantation. Reading this gave me a good look inside the minds of the people in the 1860s and their distorted way of thinking about the human race. I also found it comical that the slaves of great households esteemed themselves above white trash and their owners seemed to do the same. White trash, such as the Slattery’s in the book, were the lowest rung of the social ladder.
The social ladder was very important to this era and there were many strict guidelines for modesty, grieving, etiquette at parties, etc which was strictly adhered to. Again, I found the story so delightful and informative and felt that I was learning great detail about an era bygone without being bored to tears by a history book.
After the Civil War, many of the strict guidelines were encroached upon simply because the way of life for Confederate Southerners was forced to change so they could survive. They could no longer live by such formal social guidelines when many of them were working along side their freed slaves to keep food in their stomachs.
I think Gone with the Wind could definitely be looked at from many different angles. I chose to revel in the history and depth of detail of an era in history which helped form our nation. Others who read may pass over these details and instead focus just on Scarlett. I’m not sure what the intention of Margaret Mitchell was. We definitely come to know Scarlett, who is a courageous, albeit selfish woman. Through hundreds of pages we “watch” as Scarlett learns from her mistakes and finally becomes aware that she is not the center of the universe. Although sometimes her attitudes annoyed me and the methods she used to stay alive were questionable, I do admire her fiery spirit and ability to rise above trials.
I would like to mention that if you have only seen the movie and not the book, you have only scratched the surface of this epic story. I haven’t seen the movie for several years but in talking with others who have seen it recently and also read the book, I was assured that large parts of the book were left out. I’m certain that no movie could hold a candle to Mitchell’s intricate weaving of surroundings, feelings, and innermost desires voiced in the characters of this book.
If you have read Gone with the Wind, I would love to hear what you thought of it. What parts of the story stood out to you? Who was your favorite character or what was your favorite event from the book?
I really liked Rhett Butler; he was so shrewd and I loved how he could see through every fake pretense put upon him.
One of my favorite events was when Scarlett shot a Yankee soldier at Tara. It emboldened Scarlett to continue on fighting to survive and I think it was definitely a source of strength which she clung to, a memory that she would not lay down and be defeated, but would fight ‘til the end.
Here’s more about the book:
Since its original publication in 1936, Gone With the Wind—winner of the Pulitzer Prize and one of the bestselling novels of all time—has been heralded by readers everywhere as The Great American Novel.
Widely considered The Great American Novel, and often remembered for its epic film version, Gone With the Wind explores the depth of human passions with an intensity as bold as its setting in the red hills of Georgia. A superb piece of storytelling, it vividly depicts the drama of the Civil War and Reconstruction.
This is the tale of Scarlett O’Hara, the spoiled, manipulative daughter of a wealthy plantation owner, who arrives at young womanhood just in time to see the Civil War forever change her way of life. A sweeping story of tangled passion and courage, in the pages of Gone With the Wind, Margaret Mitchell brings to life the unforgettable characters that have captured readers for over seventy years.
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Come back to Echo Ridge and delight in 4 contemporary romances from Award-winning and Bestselling author Rachelle J. Christensen! Each heartwarming, inspirational story is set in beautiful upstate New York. This box set includes bonus epilogues and a sneak peek of Rachelle’s new book! Savor a recipe with each of the stories and come back for more.
HOPE FOR CHRISTMAS
Anika Fletcher hates Christmas–its promises of good tidings and hope for the future are as tinseled as the ornaments on Kenworth’s Hope Tree. Despite her feelings, Anika wants to maintain her daughter’s faith in the magic of the season and gladly accepts a second job working with the handsome Carlos Rodriguez to restore Kenworth’s old fashioned soda fountain. Carlos is no stranger to hard times and slowly shares his life of light and joy with Anika as they work together. Just as her fragile soul begins to feel hope again, an ill-timed act of charity changes everything. Anika isn’t sure who she can trust or if hope is worth nurturing–especially at Christmas when it’s easy to enjoy a kiss and believe love can last longer than the season.
THE KISS THIEF
As the head librarian of the Echo Ridge Library, Britta Klein thrives on order and categorization. Unfortunately, the old church-turned-library is in desperate need of a renovation. The Harvest Hurrah fundraiser seems to be the answer, but plans keep going awry. With help from Milo Geissler, accomplished musician, piano tuner, and kiss thief, each catastrophe is narrowly avoided. When Milo goes to great lengths to help Britta find a key classic book, she begins to wonder if there is more to life than books and order. Can she allow this man who speaks the language of music to tune her heart to a new song?
Welcome to Echo Ridge, New York where romance finds its way into the hearts and lives of the people who walk the streets of the close-knit community.
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THE PRINCESS BRIDE OF RIODAN
When a mysterious man offers to help Elise redecorate the old Bed & Breakfast, she gladly hands him a wallpaper steamer. After she discovers his true identity, she doesn’t know whether to curtsy or run and hide. Unfortunately, hiding isn’t an option because her heart is already tangled up with the handsome prince. At the same time, Elise’s old crush from high school wants a relationship and she’s forced to decide whether to chase after a fairy tale ending or stay grounded in reality.
COMING HOME TO LOVE
Do you remember your first love? Have you ever wondered what would happen if you had a second chance to follow your heart?
When Laney Richins left Echo Ridge, New York eight years ago, she vowed she’d never return, but life had other plans. Those plans included her cute little boy and a divorce, so Laney moved back home and started over. Working in the flower shop seems like the perfect plan until Billy Redford, the man she should have married shows up.
Billy Redford’s heart was broken when his high school sweetheart turned her back on him and fled Echo Ridge for the big city lights. Running into Laney in Echo Ridge now brings up past feelings he thought were long gone. She’s prettier than ever, still seems to read his mind, and despite his protests ends up on the building and decorating committee with him for the Homecoming dance. Billy knows how to build just about anything, but he isn’t sure he knows how to mend a broken heart.
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I’m so thrilled to announce that InD’tale Magazine read, reviewed, and judged my novel, River Whispers, and it was chosen as a RONE Award winner in the Mystery category! Isn’t that exciting?
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Jack Bentley’s life fractured into jagged shards of pain and loneliness four months ago when his wife’s car plunged into the Snake River. Still reeling from the loss of his wife and infant son, Jack finds his world shaken again when he sees the ghost of his wife, Gina. But the truth she tells him changes everything: their son didn’t drown with her.
Now, Jack must find his son before he slips away forever. Haunted by loss and his wife’s plea, Jack finds himself diving into a mystery deeper than the river’s swift current. No power on Earth can reunite him with his little boy—and even help from beyond the grave may not be enough to bring Jack’s son back.
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I subscribe to Jack Canfield’s newsletter and I loved this article. I’ve heard this before during my years in direct sales and it’s so true, but I hope that you’ll realize this works for everything in life. I’m particularly focusing on this as I strive to succeed in getting my books published. I’ve learned not to be afraid of the word, No. Hope you enjoy this:
Asking for what you need is probably the most underutilized tool for people. And yet, amazing requests have been granted to people simply because they’ve asked for it!
Whether its money, information, support, assistance, or time, most people are afraid to ask for what they need in order to make their dreams come true.
They might be afraid of looking needy, ignorant, helpless, or even greedy. More than likely though, it is the fear of rejection that is holding them back. Even though they are afraid to hear the word no, they’re already saying it to themselves by not asking!
Do you ask for what you want or are you afraid of rejection?
Consider this: Rejection is just a concept. There is really no such thing as rejection! You’re not any worse off by hearing no than you were before you asked. You didn’t have what you asked for before you asked and you still don’t, so what did you lose?
Being rejected doesn’t hold you back from anything. Only YOU hold yourself back. When you realize that there’s no merit to rejection, you’ll feel more comfortable asking for things. You may just need a bit of help learning how to ask for what you want.
How to Ask for What You Want
There’s a specific science to asking for and getting what you want or need in life. And while I recommend you learn more by studying The Aladdin Factor, here are some quick tips to get you started:
1. Ask as if you expect to get it. Ask with a positive expectation. Ask from the place that you have already been given it. It is a done deal. Ask as if you expect to get a “yes.”
2. Assume you can. Don’t start with the assumption that you can’t get it. If you are going to assume, assume you can get an upgrade. Assume you can get a table by the window. Assume that you can return it without a sales slip. Assume that you can get a scholarship, that you can get a raise, that you can get tickets at this late date. Don’t ever assume against yourself.
3. Ask someone who can give it to you. Qualify the person. Who would I have to speak to to get…Who is authorized to make a decision about…What would have to happen for me to get…
4. Be clear and specific. In my seminars, I often ask, “Who wants more money in their life?” I’ll pick someone who raised their hand and give them a quarter, asking, “Is that enough for you?” “No? Well, how would I know how much you want. How would anybody know?”
You need to ask for a specific number. Too many people are walking around wanting more of something, but not being specific enough to obtain it.
5. Ask repeatedly. One of the most important Success Principles is the commitment to not give up.
Whenever we’re asking others to participate in the fulfillment of our goals, some people are going to say “no.” They may have other priorities, commitments and reasons not to participate. It’s no reflection on you.
Just get used to the idea that there’s going to be a lot of rejection along the way to the brass ring. The key is to not give up. When someone says “No”– you say “NEXT!” Why?
Because when you keep on asking, even the same person again and again…they might say “yes”…
…on a different day
…when they are in a better mood
…when you have new data to present
…after you’ve proven your commitment to them
…when circumstances have changed
…when you’ve learned how to close better
…when you’ve established better rapport
…when they trust you more
…when you have paid your dues
…when the economy is better
…and so on.
Kids know this Success Principle better than anyone. They will ask the same person over and over again without any hesitation (can you relate!).
Getting a good perspective on rejection and learning how to ask will make a world of difference for you as you work toward your goals. Practice asking and you’ll get very good at it! You’ll even speed your progress by getting what you need, or improving yourself in order to get it later.
Make a list of what you need to ask for in all areas of your life, and start asking.
Remember, ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE… if you dare to ask!
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